How We Share Personal Data
Effective date: the earlier of (i) February 12, 2026 or (ii) the date you accept this Policy.
Xder does not sell your name, email address, phone number, or message content to third parties for their own commercial purposes.
However, in order to operate the service, ensure safety, and comply with the law, certain data must be shared with specific categories of recipients.
Below we explain what we share, with whom, and why.
1. Other Xder users
Because Xder is a social and dating platform, some information is necessarily visible to other users.
Other users may see:
Public profile information
profile photos and videos
display name
approximate age
bio and tags
preferences and interests you choose to display
Proximity data
approximate distance (not precise location)
online status
recent activity
Interactions
messages you send
content shared in chats or groups
reactions and interactions
⚠️ Important
Even if content is deleted from our servers, other users may have already saved, copied, or captured it outside the app. Xder cannot control third-party devices.
2. Service providers required to operate the platform
We work with providers that help us operate the service.
These providers act as data processors and only process data under our instructions.
They include:
Infrastructure and hosting
cloud storage and servers
content delivery networks
backups
Security and anti-fraud
spam and bot detection
identity verification
account protection
Technical support
customer support systems
error diagnostics
Analytics and performance
app stability
crash monitoring
Machine learning systems
automated moderation
profile recommendations
abuse detection
Machine learning moderation systems do not store persistent copies of your private messages for training purposes.
They operate in real time to detect harmful patterns and apply safety rules without building parallel conversation databases.
These providers may process:
technical identifiers
usage logs
security events
reported content
They are not permitted to use the data for their own purposes.
3. Notification delivery services (Apple & Google)
We use:
Apple Push Notification Service (APNs)
Firebase Cloud Messaging (FCM)
These providers process the technical information required to deliver notifications to your device.
Depending on your settings, notifications may include:
message preview text
device identifiers
delivery metadata
Their processing is governed by Apple and Google privacy policies.
4. Payment processors
When you make a purchase, payments are handled by:
Apple
Google Play
Stripe or other authorized processors
Xder does not store full card numbers.
We may receive:
subscription status
transaction identifier
payment country
last digits of card (if provided)
5. Advertising, attribution and marketing measurement
To offer a free version and measure installs, we share limited technical identifiers only.
We may share:
IDFA / GAID
truncated IP address
install events
anti-fraud signals
Purpose:
measure ad performance
prevent advertising fraud
limit repetitive ads
We do NOT share:
chat contents
full profiles
personal contact details
You can limit tracking in your device privacy settings.
6. Integrations chosen by you
If you connect third-party services (such as social networks), we share only the data required for the feature to work.
Examples:
displaying linked content
authentication verification
Further processing is governed by that third party.
7. Safety, moderation and harm prevention
We may share data when necessary to:
investigate abuse
prevent scams
block repeat offenders
protect users
This may include:
account data
reported content
technical logs
anti-fraud identifiers
Legal basis: legitimate interest in community safety.
8. Legal obligations and authorities
We may retain, use, or disclose data when legally required:
court orders
lawful requests from authorities
criminal investigations
legal defense
Only the minimum necessary data will be provided.
9. Corporate transactions
In case of merger, acquisition, or restructuring, data may be transferred to the new entity, which must honor this Privacy Policy.
10. International transfers
Some providers operate outside your country.
When data leaves the European Economic Area, we apply:
EU Standard Contractual Clauses (SCCs)
equivalent legal safeguards
11. What we never do
Xder does not:
sell your messages
sell your email or phone number
share conversations with advertisers
trade identifiable profiles
share your data with other apps in the group or affiliated companies for cross-marketing without your prior consent
We only share what is strictly necessary for the service to operate safely.
