Free · iOS & Android · EN / ES / FR
Animated background visualization showing real-time social activity
Social app with real geolocation · iOS & Android
Meet real people
near you. With context
from the first glance.
Visible interests. Local & online groups. Chat with more tools.
Xder turns your city into a living social map. No swiping. Real distance, shared interests, and possibilities that don't start from a photo.
- Free for iOS & Android
- EN · ES · FR
- Verified profiles
Up and running in
less than a minute.
Download and set up your profile
Add photos, interest tags, and what you're looking for. The more context you provide, the better your conversations. Optional but recommended facial verification.
Explore the grid of nearby people
See who's active near you, ordered by real distance. Filter by tags, age, or activity. Search by username or interests. Save favorites.
Connect with real intention
Send a vibe before talking, open a contextual chat, join local or online groups, and use icebreakers to get conversations started naturally.
A social app to discover real people near you.
Xder is not a swipe app. It’s a social discovery platform with real geolocation that shows you who’s active nearby — with interests, groups, feature-rich chat, and community beyond 1-on-1.
No swiping
Grid by real distance
More context
Visible tags & interests
More community
Local & online groups
- Real distance, not estimated
- Grid in meters from where you are now. Not by city, not by generic zones.
- Context before talking
- Tags, interests, verification, and albums. More info before your first message.
- Community beyond 1-on-1
- Local groups, online groups, interests, plans, and a network that isn't just about dating.
Dating & connection
With more context from the start. No photo roulette.
Dating with intentionFriendships & plans
People with real interests, not just pretty faces.
More than datingGroups & community
Running, music, languages, photography. Or create your own.
Real communityTravel & new cities
Arrive and instantly know who's nearby. In any city.
Useful for travelingNot just who’s nearby.
But also
who’s worth meeting.
Xder’s grid isn't a random list of photos. It’s an active social map ordered by distance, with activity signals, visible interests, and meaningful filters.
Grid by real distance in meters
Active people ordered from where you are. Switch to recent, random, or filter by age, distance, and activity.
Activity signals & interests
Online, verified, and recent activity indicators. Tags visible from the grid. Know more before opening a profile.
Favorites & conversation markers
Save profiles. Visually identify who you’ve already chatted with. Explore with real memory.
Search by tags, username, or interests
Find by exact name or explore tags. Discover which interests are trending nearby right now.
Interactive radar map showing nearby active people. Hover over profiles to see more info.
There are active people near you right now.
A profile that says who you are,
not just what you look like.
Xder profiles have more layers. Before sending a message, you already have the context to know if it’s worth it.
Tags & interests visible from the grid
What drives that person, no need to ask.
Private albums with controlled access
Private photos & videos. You decide who can request access and who you grant it to.
Free facial verification
Visible badge. Available at no cost. Drastically reduces fake profiles.
Synced Instagram feed
Add real visual context to your profile. More authenticity.
Bidirectional intent search
What that person is looking for, visible on their profile. No ambiguity from the start.
A tap before
the first message.
No pressure.
Vibes are emoji taps you can send before opening a chat. A subtle gesture that says "I'm interested" without having to write anything yet.
The receiver gets a notification with your vibe. If there's mutual interest, the conversation already has a foundation before it starts.
Love
Friendly
Wink
Flame
Heart
MessageHow does it work exactly? Open a profile, select a vibe, and send it. The receiver gets a discreet notification. Neither of you is put on the spot — it's just a gesture of interest that opens the door without forcing anything.
Talking here doesn’t
start from scratch.
It starts with context.
Xder’s chat has more tools and prior context. Before typing, you already have tags, interests, and a full profile. No paywalls on basics.
Ephemeral photos & videos
Send one or several grouped. Viewed once and they disappear.
Real-time location sharing
Where you are, exactly when it makes sense.
GIFs, stickers & saved phrases
Chat with more expressiveness. No need to search for the same thing every time.
Reply, search & like messages
More organized and meaningful conversations.
3-message rule
Limit of 3 messages sent until the other person replies. Fosters real conversations, not monologues.
Not everything starts
with a "hi".
Xder knows.
Xder integrates conversational dynamics into chat — not as entertainment, but as a smarter way to get to know someone. One proposes, the other accepts, and a conversation starts with real questions.
A good question reveals more about a person than ten generic messages.
More dynamics coming. Truth or Dare · Getting to Know You · and more.
Animated visualization of group and community network on Xder
It doesn't always start
with one person.
Sometimes it starts
with a group.
Xder has local groups tied to your area and online groups without geographic limits. A more natural gateway to human connection that doesn't rely on 1-on-1.
Local groups: tied to your zone, active in your city
Online groups: no geographic limits, by affinity & interests
Public & private · Organized by tags
Explore, filter, create & manage with full tools
Group chat, remove, report & block groups
Running Girona
124 members
New people in BCN
312 members
Concerts & indie
Event this Friday
Coffee & cowork
Open plan this afternoon
Movies & series
420 members
Share music
Collaborative playlist today
Books & long conversations
128 members
Hiking & nature
Planned getaway
Xder doesn't just show you profiles. It drops you into a more vibrant social life.
The interesting part doesn't happen on screen. It happens when proximity turns into something real.
Real words.
Real people.
What changes in Xder is the real proximity. You know the person is just meters away. That turns a conversation into a real possibility to meet up.
I joined the Running Girona group and within two days we had already met. Now we go out every Tuesday. It didn't start with a match — it started with a group.
I moved to Valencia alone. With Xder I found people with similar interests within days. Vibes make everything start more naturally.
Closer, yes.
But with real
control.
Sharing location and meeting new people requires real trust. Safety on Xder isn't a paid extra. It's built into the design.
- Free facial verification for everyone
- Visible profile badge. Available at no cost. Drastically reduces fake profiles.
- Approximate location, never exact
- Area, not address. You control when and how you appear to others.
- Active moderation & one-tap reporting
- Report users & groups instantly. Guaranteed fast response.
- Encrypted data · GDPR compliant
- Your info is never sold or shared without your explicit consent.
- Incognito mode & instant block
- Be invisible whenever you want. Your space, your rules.
You arrive in a city
and you don't start
from scratch.
Xder isn't limited to your usual city. Every time you change location, the grid updates with active people in your new area.
Conversations worth having start better here.
Everything you'd want to know
about Xder.
We answer the most common questions about how the app works, what makes it different, and what it's truly for.
What is Xder?
Xder is a social app with real geolocation for iOS & Android. It shows active people near you ordered by distance, with interests, tags, local & online groups, contextual chat, and conversational icebreakers. It's not just a dating app — it's a social discovery platform.
Is Xder only for dating or also for making friends?
Xder works for any type of connection: dating, friendship, plans, interest groups, or communities. Its design lets you discover people and groups by affinity, interests, and proximity, regardless of the connection you're seeking.
What are vibes and how do they work?
Vibes are emoji taps you send before opening a chat. You choose the vibe that best represents how you feel, send it, and the receiver gets a discreet notification. It's a signal of interest with no pressure — there's no obligation to reply. Several vibe types are available, each with a different nuance.
How does Xder's geolocation work?
Xder uses your real location to show active people ordered by meters from where you are right now. It never shows your exact address, only an approximate area. You can disable geolocation or use incognito mode when you don't want to be visible.
What types of groups are there?
Xder has local groups (tied to a geographic zone) and online groups (no geographic limits). They can be public or private, organized by tags. You can explore, filter, create yours, and manage them with full moderation tools.
Does Xder have private albums?
Yes. Xder profiles let you create private albums of photos & videos with controlled access. Other users can request access and you decide whether to grant it or not.
Are profiles verified?
Xder offers voluntary facial verification, free for everyone. Verified profiles show a visible badge. This significantly reduces fake profiles on the platform.
Is it useful for meeting people while traveling or in a new city?
Yes. Xder works in any city with connection. As soon as you change location, the grid updates with active people in your new area. You can also join online groups before arriving at your destination.
Is it available on iPhone and Android? In which languages?
Yes. Xder is available on the App Store for iPhone and Google Play for Android. Available in Spanish, English, and French. Login with Google, Facebook, or email.
Is Xder free? Do I need to pay to start?
Xder is free to download and start. The grid, search, chat, groups, and vibes are available at no cost. Premium tiers unlock advanced features like deeper filters, incognito mode, or profile view insights.
What's next might be
just meters away.
Start discovering it.
Active people near you, with real context. Groups, conversations, and community. Free to start.
- Free to start
- iOS & Android
- EN · ES · FR
- Verified profiles
App to meet people nearby with real geolocation
Xder is a social app with real geolocation for iOS & Android that shows active people by real distance, with tag search, local & online groups. The alternative to swiping to meet people in your city with more context.
Groups, interests, and community to meet real people
Xder combines social discovery via geolocation with themed groups, vibes, and conversational dynamics. Available in Spanish, English, and French. Useful for dating, friendships, and discovering people in any city.